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		<title>The Whole Old Testament on one Sunday</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 05:22:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeff</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<br/>On Sunday we taught an overview of the whole Old Testament (aka OT). We started with a QUIZ. How would you do?
Q1. The Bible is split into two parts, the ________________________ and the ________________________.
Q2. What do you already know about the Old Testament?
Q3. What are the first five books of the Bible?
Q4. How many books are in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<br/><p>On Sunday we taught an overview of the whole Old Testament (aka OT). <a href="http://willamettestudents.com/ms/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/QUIZ.png"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-836" style="float: right; border: 0px initial initial;" title="QUIZ" src="http://willamettestudents.com/ms/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/QUIZ.png" alt="QUIZ" width="113" height="54" /></a>We started with a <strong>QUIZ</strong>. How would you do?</p>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden;">Q1. The Bible is split into two parts, the ________________________ and the ________________________.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden;">Q2. What do you already know about the Old Testament?</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden;">Q3. What are the first five books of the Bible?</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden;">Q4. How many books are in the Old Testament?</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden;">Q5. What is the last book of the Old Testament?</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden;">Q6. What is the point of the Old Testament?</div>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>Q1. The Bible is split into two parts, the ________________________ and the ________________________.</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>Q2. What do you already know about the Old Testament?</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>Q3. What are the first five books of the Bible?</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>Q4. How many books are in the Old Testament?</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>Q5. What is the last book of the Old Testament?</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>Q6. What is the point of the Old Testament?</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">ANSWERS:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 60px;">ʇu &amp; ʇo &#8216;ǝlqıq ǝloɥʍ ǝɥʇ ɟo ʇuıod ǝɥʇ sı snsǝɾ ˙6 ıɥɔɐlɐɯ ˙5 (ǝlqıq ʍǝɹqǝɥ ǝɥʇ uı sʞooq 42 sɐ pǝzıuɐƃɹo sƃuıʇıɹʍ ǝɯɐs) ʇuǝɯɐʇsǝʇ plo ɥsılƃuǝ ɹno uı sʞooq 93 ˙4 ʎɯouoɹǝʇnǝp &#8217;sɹǝqɯnu &#8217;snɔıʇıʌǝl &#8217;snpoxǝ &#8217;sısǝuǝƃ : (sʞooq 5) ɥɔnǝʇɐʇuǝd ˙3 ʇuǝɯɐʇsǝʇ ʍǝu ǝɥʇ &amp; ʇuǝɯɐʇsǝʇ plo ǝɥʇ ˙1</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>Can&#8217;t read it? Here are the answers again: 1. The Old Testament &amp; the New Testament. 3. Pentateuch (5 books): Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers, Deuteronomy. 4. 39 books in our English Old Testament (same writings organized as 24 books in the Hebrew Bible). 5. Malachi. 6. Jesus is the point of the whole Bible, OT &amp; NT.</em></p>
<p><strong>Then we considered </strong><em><strong>some common misconceptions about the OT</strong></em> (misconceptions are wrong ideas/thoughts), such as:</p>
<ol>
<li>The OT has <span style="text-decoration: underline;">nothing to do with Jesus</span>, so we don’t need it.</li>
<li>The OT is just a bunch of <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Laws</span> that we don’t need anymore.</li>
<li>The OT is full of stories of God before Jesus.</li>
<li>The OT is for <span style="text-decoration: underline;">the Jewish people</span>, not for Christians.</li>
<li>The OT says in <span style="text-decoration: underline;">3 pages</span> what the NT says in a <span style="text-decoration: underline;">sentence</span>. (Therefore we don&#8217;t need to read it; the NT is more like Cliff&#8217;s Notes.)</li>
</ol>
<p>These are common mis-understandings — getting the facts and purposes wrong. No, no, no!<img style="float: right;" src="http://gallery.mailchimp.com/bd3627fc7bdbb2ea2132a89fe/images/Whole_OT_on_one_Sunday_300.jpg" alt="" /></p>
<p>Chris Nye taught on the <strong>overall structure of the Old Testament, in the four kinds of writings/sections:</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">❶ <strong>Law</strong> (the Pentateuch, first 5 books) — Genesis—Deuteronomy</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">❷ <strong>History</strong> // Joshua—Esther</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">❸ <strong>Wisdom writings</strong> (poetry) // Job—Song of Solomon</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">❹ <strong>Prophets</strong> //<em> major prophets </em>(Isaiah, Jeremiah, Lamentations, Ezekel &amp; Daniel) and<em>minor prophets</em> (Hosea—Malachi)</p>
<p>We ended with some <strong>questions for discussion in small groups</strong>:</p>
<ul>
<li><em>What is the Old Testament about (main theme)?</em></li>
<li><em>What is your favorite story in the Old Testament and why?</em></li>
<li><em>Do you view the Old Testament differently now? Why? Why not?</em></li>
</ul>
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		<title>Welcome to the ROAD</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 May 2010 15:57:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeff</dc:creator>
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We want to point out the new site we launched last weekend with some helps for enjoying God and His Word: the ROAD.
 

Some of the helps include:
 • What is ROAD?
 • GOD&#8217;s Story (visual and summary)
 • Good questions to ask
 • Daily Bible reading reflections
 • [future] Scripture snapshot videos
I underscore with [...]]]></description>
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<p>We want to point out the new site we launched last weekend with some helps for enjoying God and His Word: <strong><a title="the ROAD" href="http://willamettestudents.com/road/" target="_blank">the ROAD</a>.</strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong></p>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden;">Some of the helps include:</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden;"><span style="white-space: pre;"> </span>•<span style="white-space: pre;"> </span>What is ROAD?</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden;"><span style="white-space: pre;"> </span>•<span style="white-space: pre;"> </span>GOD&#8217;s Story (visual and summary)</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden;"><span style="white-space: pre;"> </span>•<span style="white-space: pre;"> </span>Good questions to ask</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden;"><span style="white-space: pre;"> </span>•<span style="white-space: pre;"> </span>Daily Bible reading reflections</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden;"><span style="white-space: pre;"> </span>•<span style="white-space: pre;"> </span>[future] Scripture snapshot videos</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden;">I underscore with the students that the Bible reading plan (which is the last half of the booklet) is the exact one I use. It has some unique features, like reading 3 chapters (1 in the NT, 2 in the OT), and going 3 days on and then a day off. Also, some of the slower narrative books have been pulled aside with a future video coming to explore its significance and place in the story. That way students and parents don&#8217;t feel lost on the &#8216;trees&#8217; and can also see the &#8216;forest.&#8217;</div>
<p>Some of the helps include:</p>
<ul>
<li><a title="What is ROAD?" href="http://willamettestudents.com/road/what-is-road" target="_blank">What is ROAD?</a></li>
<li><img style="float: right;" src="http://willamettestudents.com/road/img/story-images-600.png" alt="GOD's Story" width="300px" /><a title="GOD's Story" href="http://willamettestudents.com/road/the-story" target="_blank">GOD&#8217;s Story</a> (visual and summary)</li>
<li><a title="Ask Good Questions" href="http://willamettestudents.com/road/ask-questions" target="_blank">Good questions to ask</a></li>
<li><a title="Daily Bible reading reflections" href="http://willamettestudents.com/road/category/bible-reading" target="_blank">Daily Bible reading reflections</a></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: normal;">[future] Scripture snapshot videos</span></li>
</ul>
<p><span style="font-weight: normal;">I underscore with the students that the Bible reading plan (which is the last half of the booklet) is the exact one I use. We&#8217;re not asking them to practice anything we&#8217;re not committed to doing with them. We encourage parents to join on the journey, to get on the ROAD. <a title="About the ROAD" href="http://willamettestudents.com/road/about" target="_blank">A good place to start is here</a>.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: normal;">The Bible reading plan has some unique features, like reading 3 chapters (1 in the NT, 2 in the OT), and going 3 days on and then a day off. Also, some of the slower narrative books have been pulled aside with a future video coming to explore its significance and place in the story. That way students and parents don&#8217;t feel lost on the &#8216;trees&#8217; and can also see the &#8216;forest.&#8217;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: normal;">Enjoying God and His Word, with you,</span><br />
<img style="float: left;" src="http://gallery.mailchimp.com/bd3627fc7bdbb2ea2132a89fe/images/jeff.png" alt="JEFF" /><br />
<span style="font-weight: normal;">Pastor Jeff</span></p>
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		<title>ASK [almost] ANYTHING.</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 02 May 2010 20:56:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeff</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<br/>What is your Question?

This morning we worked through answering students questions about life, Jesus, following Him, the Church, and issues facing middle schoolers.
As one might expect, they have some good questions. Like:

Why do people stereotype others? 
How do I talk about Jesus with my friends? 
If we are made in the image of God, why is [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<br/><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Georgia; color: #800000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong><em><span style="font-family: Tahoma;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia;"><span style="color: #800000;"><em><strong>What is your Question?<br />
</strong></em></span></span></span></span></em></strong></span></span></p>
<p>This morning we worked through <strong>answering students questions </strong>about life, Jesus, following Him, the Church, and issues facing middle schoolers.</p>
<p><img src="http://gallery.mailchimp.com/bd3627fc7bdbb2ea2132a89fe/images/title_questions.png" border="0" alt="" width="206" height="70" align="right" />As one might expect, they have some good questions. Like:</p>
<ul>
<li><em><span style="font-family: Georgia;"><span style="font-size: larger;"><span style="color: #333399;">Why do people stereotype others? </span></span></span></em></li>
<li><em><span style="font-family: Georgia;"><span style="font-size: larger;"><span style="color: #333399;">How do I talk about Jesus with my friends? </span></span></span></em></li>
<li><em><span style="font-family: Georgia;"><span style="font-size: larger;"><span style="color: #333399;">If we are made in the image of God, why is there sin? </span></span></span></em></li>
<li><em><span style="font-family: Georgia;"><span style="font-size: larger;"><span style="color: #333399;">Who created God?</span></span></span></em></li>
<li><span style="font-size: larger;"><span style="color: #333399;"><em><span style="font-family: Georgia;">Is there more to the Christian life than accepting Jesus and going to church?</span></em></span></span><span style="color: #333399;"><em><span style="font-family: Georgia;"> </span></em></span></li>
<li><span style="color: #333399;"><em><span style="font-size: larger;"><span style="font-family: Georgia;">Wanna be a ninja?</span></span></em></span></li>
<li><em><span style="font-family: Georgia;"><span style="font-size: larger;"><span style="color: #333399;">Why are we writing down questions? </span></span></span></em></li>
</ul>
<p style="text-align: left;">We actually started with that last one, since it may seem odd to ask questions in church. Why is that? Perhaps we have been programmed to not think too deeply or too much, but just go through the motions. Yet, we all have questions, and Jesus welcomed people to ask Him questions. Every few weeks we plan to give space and time to wrestling with life questions.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><img class="aligncenter" src="http://gallery.mailchimp.com/bd3627fc7bdbb2ea2132a89fe/images/Ask_almost_Anything.png" border="0" alt="" hspace="2" vspace="4" width="367" height="44" align="middle" /><br />
When we don&#8217;t ask questions our minds simply run with the preconceived notions running around in their (our thoughts, attitudes and desires), which come out in our words, lead to actions, and ultimately form and display our character. Just like we taught about last week:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter" style="float: center;" src="http://gallery.mailchimp.com/bd3627fc7bdbb2ea2132a89fe/images/thoughts_words_actions_character.png" border="0" alt="" /></p>
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		<title>What&#8217;s &#8220;Ask &amp; Explore&#8221; (a resource for parents)</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Apr 2010 05:33:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeff</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<br/>Every week we send out a summary of the Sunday worship experience with students, focusing on the themes and Scriptures from  our teaching and response time. We call this &#8220;Ask &#38; Explore&#8221; simply  because what we learn and enjoy each week should be explored together  both students with their parents. What better [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<br/><p><img style="float: right;" src="http://willamettestudents.com/ms/img/ask-explore-screen-ms1.png" alt="Ask &amp; Explore" />Every week we send out a summary of the Sunday worship experience with students, focusing on the themes and Scriptures from  our teaching and response time. We call this &#8220;Ask &amp; Explore&#8221; simply  because what we learn and enjoy each week should be explored together  both students with their parents. What better way to explore than by  asking questions? It&#8217;s a simple tool parents have asked to help connect  God&#8217;s Word to the parent-student relationship, bringing the message to  real-life.</p>
<p>The questions are the same ones we wrestle with in our small group  times. Leaders, students, parents, asking the same heart questions,  seeing God change our minds and our hearts.</p>
<p>We deeply desire to partner with parents — and that each would feel <em>encouraged</em>,  <em>supported</em>, <em>equipped</em>, and <em>involved</em> in God&#8217;s process  to nurture students&#8217; faith in Jesus. So &#8230; <em>Ask. Explore. </em>Let us know how we can help.</p>
<p>(We send these out <a title="WCC High School: Ask &amp; Explore" href="http://willamettestudents.com/hs/2010/03/whats-ask-explore-hs/" target="_blank">for high school</a> as well.)</p>
<ul>
<li> <strong><a title="Ask &amp; Explore" href="http://us1.campaign-archive.com/?u=bd3627fc7bdbb2ea2132a89fe&amp;id=0b5b8d0f9d" target="_blank">See a recent &#8220;Ask &amp; Explore&#8221;</a> for middle school</strong></li>
<li><em><strong> <a title="Sign-up to receive updates + Ask &amp; Explore" href="http://willamettestudents.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=bd3627fc7bdbb2ea2132a89fe&amp;id=de0aa370d5" target="_blank">Sign up to receive them!</a></strong></em></li>
</ul>
<p>Thank you again for the privilege of investing in your students!</p>
<p>Because  Jesus is everything,<br />
<img src="http://gallery.mailchimp.com/bd3627fc7bdbb2ea2132a89fe/images/jeff.png" border="0" alt="" width="94" height="69" /><br />
Jeff Patterson<br />
Associate Pastor<br />
students@willamettechurch.com</p>
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		<title>Do you know where your teens are on the Web tonight?</title>
		<link>http://willamettestudents.com/ms/2009/08/do-you-know-where-your-teens-are-on-the-web-tonight/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2009 15:34:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeff</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<br/>Read a recent LA. Times article, &#8220;What parents think teens are doing on social networks, and what the teens are actually doing.&#8221; Here&#8217;s the brief article, followed by some reflection.
Do you know where your teens are on the Web tonight?
Most parents aren&#8217;t surprised by the most likely answer: social networks. But they may be unsettled [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<br/><p>Read a recent LA. Times article, &#8220;<a href="http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/technology/2009/08/teens-on-social-networks.html">What parents think teens are doing on social networks, and what the teens are actually doing</a>.&#8221; Here&#8217;s the brief article, followed by some reflection.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Do you know where your teens are on the Web tonight?</strong></p>
<p>Most parents aren&#8217;t surprised by the most likely answer: social networks. But they may be unsettled by what their kids are doing on those sites, according to a survey to be released Monday by Common Sense Media, a San Francisco advocacy group.</p>
<p><img style="float: right;" src="http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/.a/6a00d8341c630a53ef0120a52b2d5d970c-500wi" alt="social networking" width="240px" />The survey polled 1,013 teens and 1,002 parents. The bottom line: Parents consistently underestimate how much time their kids spend on social networks and how often they engage in risky behavior, such as posting revealing photos of themselves, bullying other kids or hacking into their friends&#8217; accounts. The study mirrors an earlier report from Common Sense Media on kids using technology to cheat in school.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a sample of the new report&#8217;s findings:</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>37%</strong> of teens said they used social networks to make fun of other students, but only <strong>18%</strong> of parents believe their own angels do so.</li>
<li><strong>13%</strong> of teens said they posted naked or semi-naked photos or videos of themselves. Only <strong>2%</strong> of parents said their kids have done that.</li>
<li><strong>24%</strong> of teens said they signed on to someone else&#8217;s account without permission, while only <strong>4%</strong> of parents said their kids have done that.</li>
<li><strong>28% </strong>of teens posted personal information that they normally would not have revealed in public, but <strong>16%</strong> of parents said their kids did that.</li>
</ul>
<p>What to do? Common Sense suggests &#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230; parents first learn about these networks by registering and exploring the networks their children are in. Because Facebook and MySpace don&#8217;t allow kids under 13 to open accounts, parents with younger children should check their browsers&#8217; histories to see where their kids are going.</p>
<p>For parents of teens who are already on social networks, Common Sense suggested they talk with their kids about privacy settings, whom not to friend and precautions to take when posting personal information.</p>
<p>&#8220;Remind teens that everything they post can essentially be seen by a vast, invisible audience,&#8221; the group said in its report. &#8220;And tell them that online stuff can last forever. If they wouldn&#8217;t put something on the hallway in school, they shouldn&#8217;t post it on their pages.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
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<p>A few thoughts &#8230;</p>
<p>First, <strong>an immediate response may be &#8220;Oh no, not my kid!&#8230; My kid would never &#8230;&#8221;</strong> But wait, that is part of the point of the research. Parents are underestimating the influence of media on their kids, and the visible signs may not clue us in. We need to dig deeper, while taking a step back, and recognize that it could be our kids. Doesn&#8217;t mean we are horrible parents. There is hope; read on &#8230;</p>
<p>The report mentions <strong>monitoring the web habits of your children</strong>. (Yes, you should!)</p>
<p>There are also additional ways to <strong>talk with your kids</strong>. The first is talking with your kids. Get in their world. Find out what interests them—today, right now. Show them you love them by getting interested in what interests them.</p>
<p><img style="float: right;" src="http://willamettestudents.com/ms/img/CPYU-3D-media.jpg" alt="How to Use Your Head to Guard Your Heart" width="300px" />At an appropriate time, <strong>share a good resource</strong> (to get both of you thinking) like <em><strong>How to Use Your Head to Guard Your Heart: A 3(D) Guide to Making Responsible Media Choices</strong> (by Walt Mueller of <a title="Center for Parent Youth Understanding" href="http://cpyu.org/" target="_blank">CPYU</a>). </em></p>
<p>What is 3(D)? It means <em>Discover, Discern, </em>and<em> Decide</em>. There is a process for making responsible choices. This great resource can get a helpful tool in your family. <em><br />
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<li><em>Find it <a title="CPYU" href="http://www.cpyuresourcecenter.org/3d-guide.html" target="_blank">here</a>, or grab a FREE copy from the middle school room this weekend. We want to resource you parents—you are the most important influence in your kids&#8217; lives! </em></li>
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		<description><![CDATA[<br/>On Sunday we watched this video, challenging us to see all of our possessions &#8212; money, things, food, everything &#8212; as ways to show how Christ is more valuable to us than any of it. All of our stuff is on loan from its true Owner, the Creator God, who made us to know, love [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<br/><p>On Sunday we watched this video, challenging us to see all of our possessions &#8212; money, things, food, everything &#8212; as ways to show how Christ is more valuable to us than any of it. All of our stuff is on loan from its true Owner, the Creator God, who made us to know, love and enjoy Him above all else.</p>
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<li>The question for students to ask their parents: <em><strong>Mom + Dad, who really owns all of our stuff? </strong></em></li>
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<p>First, let me ask &#8212; anybody going on any road trips?</p>
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